What Is It Called When Someone Proposes Marriage Very Quickly?
I’ve heard a bunch of the stories about people who meet one day and then one of them proposes marriage less than a week later. I cannot for the life of me figure out what this kind of thing is called.
Serial monogamist and compulsive monogamist are not quite what I had in mind.
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It’s called being an idiot!
Actually – I don’t think it’s crazy at all. It’s crazy when random strangers meet at bars and go have sex. Yes, now that’s crazy.
I have much more respect for someone who proposes marriage quickly than someone who proposes casual sex.
With the state of Marriage the way it is in the USA – you have no more chances of divorce when you marry someone you know for a week than if you know them for 7 years prior to marriage.
It’s the attitude and ability you bring into it – definitely not the time frame.
The Universe Guru
Folks have defined it. It’s desperation. Sometimes we’re so desperate for a relationship that we’ll take the first one offered to us. We don’t pick n’ choose and stay single long enough to hook up with someone who shares our values, fits our lifestyle, and is emotionally healthy enough to meet our emotional needs. Sadly, we often put more thought into what shoes to buy or what outfit to wear for a party. Think about how many shoes or outfits we try on before we decide what to buy or wear! Some people hate being alone so much that they’ll hook-up with the first person who’s willing to be with them. Sometimes, the love at first sight thing is really being “blinded by desire.” When we’re desperately lonely, we tend to see what we want to see and we ignore, deny, or minimize what we don’t want to know about! These relationships tend to be short-lived because once we get married or begin living together the new quickly wears off. The stressors of daily life take their toll…and the Mr. or Mrs. Charming is no longer trying to win our heart or our hand in marriage…and the big picture of their personality unfolds. We naturally experience them in different mood states…like when they’re under stress, angry, tired, or hungry. We’re confronted by a side of them that perhaps we did not see or choose to see before! We fell in love with a fantasy and wake up to a nightmare! From a DBT-CBT therapy perspective, when we’re desperately lonely, we’re Big Time in Emotional Mind…and we impulsively become involved with someone. It’s not a Rational Mind decision because had we been thinking, we would not have tied down with someone so quickly… someone we knew so little about. Many of us have “been there, done that” and we rationally know how these impulsive relationships work out! But, we were in Emotional Mind, it felt good, so we did it! We weren’t thinking about the future, we were living in the moment!
It always scared me, and made me dump the guy. They didn’t even know me, how did they know they wanted to spend the rest of their lives with me? what if I didn’t meet their expectations, and I wasn’t at all the person they thought I was? i didn’t like the idea. I believe in taking it slow.
Quick to jump on the wagon their aren’t they lol. Idk if theirs a word for it but i sure do know they get ahead of themselves quickly thats so wrong but if they feel its right for them then they go for it I’d say desperate also.
Been there. Done that. I do believe it is called Infatuation, and that is often mistaken for Love.
it is crazy!! to get married your desperate and if you did it would be a doom one cause once you found out what there like you may find someone better and not them
From what I understand, they’re called virgins.
Desperation and stupidity.
its called stupidity
Eager beavers perhaps…
Its called lust, or drunkeness
pure stupidity i think.
Just me, but I’d call it desperate.
crazy lol
stupid is what I’d call it why would you want to marry some one you barely know their name